We spent last week researching places we could go on a day trip and we voted where we wanted to go first, and picked the ocean-side city of Cadiz. We had SO much fun… enjoy the pictures and videos from our day… More adventures coming up soon…
Take Time by Turning Off…
1 Corinthians 12: 1-11
“Now about the gifts of the Spirit, brothers and sisters, I do not want you to be uninformed. You know that when you were pagans, somehow or other you were influenced and led astray to mute idols. Therefore I want you to know that no one who is speaking by the Spirit of God says, ‘Jesus be cursed,’ and no one can say, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ except by the Holy Spirit. There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work. Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good. To one there is given through the Spirit a message of wisdom, to another a message of knowledge by means of the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by that one Spirit, to another miraculous powers, to another prophecy, to another distinguishing between spirits, to another speaking in different kinds of tongues, and to still another the interpretation of tongues. All these are the work of one and the same Spirit, and he distributes them to each one, just as he determines.”
The sermon this week was all about turning off our electronics and focusing on people face-to-face…
Going into the hospital scared me. I was just minding my business… shopping for Christmas gifts (we were almost done… just a couple more things for the kids)… then BAM! I’m having emergency surgery to remove a baby I didn’t even know I had been carrying. I’m being transferred to a hospital while unconscious, waking up to find out I had no idea what was going on and no way of talking to the people around me… I was scared.
I came home almost a week later and I was different. Things looked different. The closer I got to my house and my children, the more I cried. I had been a weepy mess since it started, so I knew that wasn’t changing much, but that wasn’t the only thing different. I laid in bed that night (pretending to try to sleep), and just listening to my kids laughing. I let their little laughs put me to sleep that night. And I realized I had been taking them for granted.
That’s not something I ever thought would happen. I mean, I worked HARD for those babies. I suffered through awful things to get pregnant with them and give birth to them. I was one of the lucky ones… fertility treatments worked for me… and I had been giving my kids the left-overs. I was always just a little too late when one would say “Momma look at this!” Because whatever I was doing was too important to look away from a second sooner. “You missed it… that’s okay!” They are so forgiving… even when I fail them time and again.
Not anymore… I still do the things I did before (crocheting… listening to podcasts and audio books… reading actual paper books or books on my kindle), but I try to look the FIRST time… “Momma look!” And I do…
The distractions around us might not be the same ones that Paul was talking about when he wrote this letter to the church at Corinth, but they had distractions also that kept them from the same things that ours keep us from… we don’t use our gifts because we are too busy being distracted.
No one is saying to stop using technology… we couldn’t function, right!?! BUT we can definitely use it less… “Take Time by Turning Off”… that’s my new motto…
If I am engaged in something that I don’t want to be interrupted while doing (that really is only my bible reading in the mornings), then I tell them ahead of time that I’m putting headphones in to listen to music while I read and reflect… please don’t interrupt. They are old enough to take care of themselves, so they leave me alone for that time. Any other time, I try to be available to them. I just do… no excuses… none…
They’re only going to be in my house for a very short period of time… I want to actively enjoy the crap out of them while they are here… and I am!!
Welcome to my world… it’s pretty great around here!!
How we met…
I wondered if he was EVER going to ask me to marry him… and I’d only known him four and a half months. CRAZY!! Let’s go back a little….
I was 20 years old, and thought I knew everything. Well… I thought I knew what I wanted to do with my life. I was going to continue in college and get my English degree, then I was going to go overseas and teach English as a second language. My husband would be a missionary and I would teach English and we would live in some third-world country and be surrounded by lots of our babies and babies we had adopted from the country we were living in. I’d be able to speak whatever language was spoken by the people there, and we would live happily ever after. Spreading the story of Jesus and working together to improve the lives of other people. THIS was the dream of my 20 year old self. THIS is what I thought God had planned for me.
I was at a bible study in the beginning of the school year in 1998. I was there with my boyfriend (Let’s call him Joe). We had been dating only a couple of weeks, I think. He worked at a car shop where they installed windows in cars and trucks. My window had some scratches, so he told me I could get a new windshield and I wouldn’t have to pay anything because insurance would cover it. I don’t know why I remember this because I’m not even sure that’s what happened, but I know I took my car there and I got a new window. When I came to pick it up, he was introducing me to some of his co-workers. I guess it’s safe to say it was common knowledge that I had a “type”. I liked bald heads and goatees. Joe and I had been friends for a while before we started dating, so I’m sure he knew this about me. There was a large group of us who hung out quite a bit during this time, and I’m sure they all knew this about me. So… Joe, who didn’t have a bald head or a goatee, thought it was really funny to point out bald guys to me and ask if I thought they were cute. He wasn’t doing it out of jealousy or anything like that. Really, I think we were just better as friends, and now that we’d added kisses into the mix, we were just friends who kissed each other. Where was I, oh yeah… I was picking up my car from the shop and he’s showing me around. His boss, probably in his late 50’s, was bald and had a goatee… Immediately, I suspect what’s coming as we walk up. Joe introduces us and then says TO HIS BOSS! “She likes bald guys with goatees… don’t you?” Gesturing to me!! I was so embarrassed, but I just laughed and didn’t really answer him. I got over it pretty quickly I guess because I’m not even sure I said anything to him about it afterwards. I just thought he was weird to bringing that up all the time.
So, now back to the bible study group. Joe and I walk up and I notice immediately that there is a new car in the parking lot with an Atlanta Braves license plate (I love the braves, so this caught my attention). I also notice there are a few new people in the buidling when we walk in. I’m a junior now, and I assume that the new people must be Freshmen. I also notice that one of them is bald… with a goatee… he is hot! But I’m with Joe, so I just appreciate that he’s cute and move on. Not Joe… he walks over to introduce himself, calls me over to introduce me, and then… he did it… he said “she likes bald guys with goatees!” I turned right around and walked over to the bible study leader to ask some random question to get away from Joe and Cute Dude!
After the bible study we were all sitting around talking and I found out he was a junior also and had been living at the Wesley Foundation (The building right next door!). He was a business major, and that Atlanta Braves car did belong to him. Okay… he’s got a lot going for him, but I’m with Joe.
Beginning of October 1998 (a couple of months later)… Joe and I break up, and now we are friends who no longer kiss… Neither of us are very sad about this. I know I’m not, and I know he’s not because the day he told me he wanted to break up with me I went to a concert and he was there with another girl. At least he told me a few hours before he went out with someone else. Anyway… I’m not bitter at all… really….
Halloween night 1998 – I was a peanut M&M and my cousin, Carly, was a plain M&M… or I was plain and she was peanut. It doesn’t matter… what matters is that same car was in the parking lot of the MBSF (Missionary Baptist Student Fellowship). I was excited about doing our canned food drive that night (Food Bank-o-Ween), and excited to be hanging out with my cousin/best friend. We were getting settled in the trailer and ready to be driven around when Cute Dude walked up. He was dressed as Stone Cold Steve Austin (if you didn’t watch WWF/WWE during this time, you should probably google him. He was bald… with a goatee…) So we talked the whole time, and I had so much fun…
We will finish part two with the proposal… unless I ramble too much, then there will be a part three to this story! 🙂
Welcome to my world… it’s pretty great around here!!
Don’t pass out…
I used to pass out… like… a lot!! A little bit more history about my childhood. I have one sibling. An older brother. He’s six years older than me. My mother had secondary infertility. Meaning that she didn’t have a problem getting pregnant the first time, but when he was three or four and they decided to have another baby, they ended up having to have fertility treatments. In her case, she took clomid… and got pregnant with me!
So… I’m six years younger than my brother. I always tried to do whatever he did and go along with anything he would let me do. I had three cousins who were about the same age as my brother and they were all boys. I tried everything I could think of to make them like me… especially Boyett, my brother.
I don’t remember how old i was, but I was young… and he had done something mean to me, as most big brothers do! And I was crying… I remember him telling me that “only babies cry”… and i wanted to be anything but a baby, so this began the period of my life where I would hold my breath to keep from crying… and I’d pass out!
I don’t know the first time this happened, but I remember the last time I did it…
At the house I lived in from age 2-16, we had holly bushes in the front yard across the front of the house. I passed out one time and fell into those bushes. There was a really big ditch between our house and our neighbor’s house. I passed out and fell down that ditch one time. Maybe there were more times, but I don’t specifically remember those times. 🙂 I do remember the last time, though.
We were at the deer camp. I hope you all know what that is, but in case you don’t, it’s a camp where you stay when you are hunting deer. 🙂 Okay… it is a piece of land that usually has a place to sleep (sleep shack) and a place to eat (kitchen). My grandfather and some of his friends leased some land a long time ago to use for hunting and were allowed to put a “camp” on it so that they (usually just the men) could come stay and be able to head out to hunt earlier.
I LOVED the deer camp as a child. We were there a lot and so were most of my cousins. We played all kinds of games and could really do whatever we wanted as long as we stayed at the camp and didn’t go into the woods.
This time… the last time I passed out… we were at the deer camp. We were all running from the kitchen (where the adults were), to the sleep shack (where we would go play cards or other games). The screen door had a spring on it so it would stay closed and as I was running into the sleep shack behind my cousin, the screen door started to slam closed and I tried to catch it. I missed and it slammed on my fingers.
I couldn’t go inside because I thought I was about to cry (and i didn’t want anyone to see that), so I turned around and walked around the side of the sleep shack. I was holding my breath so I would cry, and this time when I passed out, I fell into the side of the sleep shack and busted my head open. It was actually on my face, near my eyebrow.
I, obviously, don’t remember this next part, but one of the adults left the kitchen for some reason and saw me laying unconscious with blood all over my face. In case you weren’t aware, head wounds bleed easily and profusely, so my cut probably looked worse than it was.
He picked me up (still unconscious) and brought me into the kitchen. He laid me on a table, and this is when I woke up.
I remember opening my eyes and everything was really bright and I could see my mother’s back right beside me and she was screaming for everyone to “back up and leave her alone”. I’m not sure why she wanted this, unless it was so she could examine what was wrong, but that’s what I remember. Anyway, she says she was completely freaked out and not even sort of in control, but I just remember her yelling for everyone to back up, and then I don’t remember much more than that. I do know that I decided that crying would probably have been better than what happened.
So now… I just cry it out!! 🙂
Welcome to my world… it’s pretty great around here!!
New job… day One!
Let’s review this timeline in case we want to go back and see what music was popular during this time in my life 🙂
July 1999 – I got married and was taking summer classes to finish my degree
2000 – I had graduated from college and was living in a tiny town in Northeast Arkansas (near West Memphis) where Ron was preaching at his first church and attending seminary in Memphis.
2001 – I tried the whole “stay-at-home-wife” thing, but it just wasn’t working for either of us, we were trying to get pregnant on our own at this point (meaning, no fertility treatments), and I HAD to do something to get out of the house. This is where today’s story begins…
I’ve always liked teaching, so that seemed like a natural thing for me to do as I found myself living about three hours from my parents with not much to occupy my time (you can only watch French Kiss so many times), so I headed to the local public school.
I didn’t care what subject I taught (although I preferred English, since that’s what I knew most about), but I just wanted to teach. I went into the office (there was only one office for the Kindergarten through 12th grade because the whole school system was in one location — I told you it was tiny!) I asked about a substitute position, and they told me that they had someone who was substituting now until they found someone to fill the position full time. I asked what subject and grade and was told it was high school English. This seemed fortuitous and maybe predestined, so I accepted it. There was no application process, no interview except for a quick one with the superintendent of schools after I said I would take the job. It was about lunch time when I was finished talking with him, and he told me I could join the afternoon classes and meet some of my students before I took over the class in the morning.
This is where I tell you that this was the FIRST day of school for the year. So the kids were having their first day at the same time as me, and I had NO summer planning time or anything. The superintendent’s secretary told me that there were books in my classroom and I could bring them home and start my planning.
I took exactly ONE education class in college. We got to the part where we had to make lesson plans and those types of things, and I quit. I dropped out of the only education class that I had and majored in English… not education… for this very reason. And now I’ve stepped right into a job that requires the very thing I dropped a class because of… so I’m super excited! 🙂
Lunch is over for the students and the superintendent walks me into the high school building to meet the principal. We’ll call him Larry because he will feature prominently in my teaching stories. Larry seems friendly enough, and pleased to have a permanent teacher for his English class. So he leads me down to my classroom. We have to walk all the way through the main building and out to a smaller building at the end. There are four rooms in this “extra” building (not counting the bathrooms), there is the band room, the high school science room, junior high English room, and my room… the last room in the last building on campus.
We walk in just as the kids are coming into class. I quickly learn that this is my 11th graders. They are the only class big enough to be split into two classes for English. I will have one class of 11th graders who will come 2nd period, and then the rest of them will come right after lunch for 5th period. If you didn’t have a school with seven periods a day, go find a history book or google is and see how things used to work! 🙂 I know they still have it in some schools today, but most of them have changed the way the day is scheduled.
Anyway, I meet the substitute teacher. A VERY nice woman whom we will call Pinky. I ended up growing quite close to her and her daughter (who happened to be in this class). She tells the kids to sit down and maybe assigns them something to do, but I don’t really remember. I remember thinking they were really loud, and feeling overwhelmed that I was going to have to get them to sit down and listen to me teach them.
Pinky sat with me at the teacher’s desk and got out all of the books I would need. I was looking through the books and feeling even more overwhelmed as it really began to sink in that I would be in charge of teaching a lot of children every day. My schedule looked like this…
I had about 11 or 12 of the same students from 5th through 7th periods… I enjoyed having some of them all afternoons, but some of them were just stuck with me because no one else wanted them.
What does this mean as far as planning goes? I had FIVE different lesson plans to do for EACH DAY!!
So… I’m sitting at the teacher’s desk, next to Pinky, looking over the teacher’s guides for my classes and trying to block out the noise from the students. It finally gets too loud and I look up to see Pinky pulling two children apart!! She’s not that big to begin with… well… she’s not that tall! And she is pulling these children apart and yelling at them for trying to fight “on the first day of school”.
The kids were screaming and cussing at each other and still trying to fight, and I sat at the desk, uncomfortably staring at the scene in front of me… I should’ve run out right then and never looked back…
Welcome to my world… it’s pretty great around here!!
What I learned at church…
Scripture: Isaiah 43: 1-7 “Don’t Worry!”
My translation says this….
“But now, this is what the Lord says – he who created you, Jacob, he who formed you, Israel: ‘Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior; I give Egypt for your ransom, Cush and Seba in your stead. Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you, I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for your life. Do not be afraid, for I am with you; I will bring your children from the east and gather you from the west. I will say to the north, ‘Give them up!’ and to the south, ‘Do not hold them back.’ Bring my sons from afar and my daughters from the ends of the earth – everyone who is called by my name, whom I created for my glory, whom I formed and made.”
I really needed to hear a sermon about worry this week. Or just be reminded that I don’t have to live my life worried about everything. It is truly great to be able to turn my worries over to God and just relax…
Okay… that whole paragraph is a lie. Maybe that’s the way it works for some people (maybe even most people), but that’s little comfort for me. I have to take it one moment at a time instead of saying “here you go, God” and then never thinking about it again.
If you’ve read my previous posts, then you know some of what’s going on with my body. But not quite everything. Just in these next 7 days, I will have a chest x-ray, an ultrasound (of my thyroid), an MRI (on my uterus), consultations with two different ENT’s (One Spanish and one military), and a followup appointment about the MRI results. Then MAYBE I’ll know what the next step is.
I am trying to memorize part of the passage above so I can recite it to myself when I have moments of worry or panic.
“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.”
This part in particular because it doesn’t promise that we WON’T pass through waters or rivers and we WON’T walk through fire… just that when we do we won’t be alone. So I just keep saying those verses to myself.
I’ve also noticed that I’ve been left alone a lot during these appointments. Someone will need to take a scan to make sure they got the right picture they wanted, or to get a second opinion about something, and I’m stuck sitting in the room… just waiting. I’ve been using those times to pray. I just pray that I will make the people who are dealing with me feel better than they felt when I walked in. I try to make sure I talk to them and let them know I appreciate them doing their jobs. It also helps me take my mind off of whatever I’m trying not to worry about.
The other part of the passage is: “Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you,”
We all know… “God is love”… but to see the words “I love you” just makes me smile for some reason.
The MRI this week is the first one I’ve ever had, and so my amount of worry over this is huge. It doesn’t help that it’s in a Spanish hospital and, while I’m working hard to learn Spanish, it’s still really hard to communicate. So I’m going to recite these verses moment by moment and lie as still as possible, probably with my nose itching, and pray that I can put a smile on the technician’s face before I leave (being funny in Spanish is so much more difficult)… or really they just smile most of the time when I try to speak Spanish, so it might not be as hard as I think! 🙂
I hope everyone has a slower week than me, but that you’re still able to make someone smile. I pray that someone makes you smile, and that this week is better than last week.
Welcome to my world… it’s pretty great around here!!
I write… and write…
I’m a writer. I have been a writer my whole life, but I’ve never written anything. I mean to say, I’ve never published anything, or had anything published, or however the correct way to say it is.
I’m hoping to change all of that soon. I’ve started taking a writing class. One of the first suggestions was to start a blog where I can just write and write and write. So that’s what I’ve done.
I think I want to write short stories. I’m not sure that many people have that aspiration, but I know I don’t have the patience to write a novel (I’ve actually tried that on more than one occasion). I have the idea, but stretching it out into 80,000 words or something is just not doable for me. I lose the thread of the characters or I try to put too many characters in and I just get tired of it.
That may be the same reason why I only like to crochet small projects… I need to change often, so I can’t get stuck doing the same thing for too long or I can’t stand it anymore.
So… Short stories… I’ve written these my whole life. I remember as a kid, probably around 3rd or 4th grade, that I would ask my mother to give me the title of a story, and then I would write about it. I didn’t care what it was at all. Part of the excitement was to make up the rest of the story around whatever title she gave me. I wish I had some of these, as I’m sure they were pure 8-year old genius!! 🙂
Anyway… I’ve written a couple of really short pieces as an adult, and I’ll be sharing those as we go along here, but I’m also going to be sharing my new stuff that I’m writing. And some of the exercises from my online class. So feel free to let me know what you think.
I’ll be starting an online group of “critics” also, so if you want to be added to read my stories and give me advice/criticism about them, then I’d be happy to add you. Or you can just comment here on the ones I share and let me know what you think.
My daughter is reading a series of books written in poetry form, but all revolving around the same story. All the poems together tell the story of the novel. I’m thinking about maybe doing that. Like a series of short stories revolving around the same people or the same themes. Then putting them all together in a book. I’ll see as I go along, and I’ll also be submitting the stories to magazines for publication.
So… because I’m a writer, I’m now also a blogger! And I’m very glad you joined me on this journey of mine!
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I teach, therefore I…
So that English degree that I told you about in another post is used still today (although I joke that I don’t use it at all!). I use it especially when I read Facebook posts where the grammar is horrific!! And especially memes… I don’t care what the point of the meme is, if they can’t use the correct form of your/you’re and their/there/they’re, I can’t focus on what it’s saying! I just can’t. I realize that sometimes people make an accidental mistake and they actually know the difference, and I can overlook it in a text or something else that is quickly written and maybe being read by one person, but if you are making a meme there are two rules you should follow: 1. Is everything spelled correctly? 2. Is my grammar correct? That’s it… if those two things are good, then I’ll check out your meme and laugh about it… otherwise, I’ll scroll on past while I shake my head and the lack of thought that went into it… and please don’t share memes that don’t have those two rules either.
Okay… all of that sounded snobbish, and while it is actually what I think, I never say anything about it. I just don’t tell people when they’ve made grammatical errors. One of my favorite English professors in college said this about correcting people’s grammar. She said, “I don’t correct grammar unless the person is my child or a student in class. You shouldn’t do it either because it really is none of your business. No one will talk to you after you correct them either for fear that they will say something to bring about your wrath. So just mind your own business and don’t do it!” I’ve followed that rule since she said it. I hadn’t thought that maybe my friends and family members didn’t like it when I told them they should say that “the bike is BROKEN” instead of “the bike is broke”. So now I only correct my children, and since they’ve grown up listening to me MOSTLY use correct grammar, then it isn’t as much of an issue. I do still think it, but I can’t really help that part, and I do a great job of keeping my mouth shut about it! 🙂
One more thing about grammar, and then I promise to get on to the “teacher” part of this post! 🙂 If you think someone (usually someone online) is being stupid or acting like an idiot… please, please, please… just don’t say anything! 🙂 We all know that’s the correct response. Just be nice to them or don’t respond to them at all. HOWEVER, if you just HAVE to say something and tell them how dumb you think they are… don’t say “your an idiot!” The “idiot” might not get the mistake, but the majority of the people who read this will likely think that maybe you are the idiot… BUT… just don’t say mean things period… this also applies if someone is amazing!! “your amazing” is still incorrect… 🙂 So don’t do that either!
Okay… I graduated from college and became a stay at home wife. I thought I’d be great at this job because I’d have all day to decide what we would eat for dinner and to clean the house and have everything perfect. That’s when I discovered a few things about me…
None of these things are good qualities listed in whatever job description we all hear about when talking about being a housewife (don’t like that term!), so I sucked at this. (I still do actually, and it’s been 16 years!)
I wanted to cross-stitch and watch movies while I did it. I didn’t want to clean this gigantic house that I was having problems living in because all the bedrooms made me realize that I wanted babies in them and that wasn’t happening. I just didn’t know what to do.
My husband (who is a MUCH better housewife than me!) suggested I see about substitute teaching at the local high school. This will have to be a whole other blog series because this school was CRAZY!!! I did teach, for one year. That’s all I could take… in that one year, I was subpoenaed to court to testify against the principal who was arrested TWO different times during that school year. I saw children doing things that I had only just started doing since I had just gotten married. It was just out of control, and I’ve just decided to make this my first blog series after Who am I??
After that job, we moved and I got pregnant. Price was born and we were living so close to Hamburg (where I grew up), and my old principal when I went to school there was now the superintendent of schools and he told me there was good chance I would get a job at my old high school, if I wanted it.
I tried to do the stay-at-home-mom thing, now that I was officially a mom, but I stunk at that too. It still involved all the same “requirements” as a housewife, only now I had a baby to deal with on top of it. The “baby” was now 18 months old and I decided teaching again seemed like a good idea.
I LOVED being back at my old high school. I was in the teacher’s lounge hanging out with my old teachers. It was awesome… and surreal! That school year was weird though because I didn’t actually have a classroom, I had a cart! 🙂 I’ll post more about that later too… I got pregnant again while I was teaching there and decided that with a toddler and now a baby on the way, I really wanted to stay home with them. I loved being a mommy and didn’t like that I didn’t get to see Price all day while I was teaching.
We moved to Colorado Springs when Price was 3 and Wesley was 8 months old. Ron was officially on active duty in the Air Force, and I was staying home with my babies. I loved it. I decided that homeschooling was going to be the best way for us to be able to do all the things we wanted to do. I wanted to travel and we wanted to be able to go home and visit whenever we wanted to. These things would be made easier by homeschooling, and i figured if I could teach 25-30 high schoolers, then I could teach one on one with my own kids.
I’ve been teaching them for 8 years, and it’s looked different from time to time. I’ll write more about the ways in which we’ve home-schooled throughout the years and how it looks for us as an ever-evolving entity. It’s the best decision for our family, but I know it’s not the best for everyone. This is another area where I try to keep my mouth shut and answer questions when I’m asked, but not butt in when I’m not asked.
I am a teacher, and I love to teach. Not just my children, but bible studies at our church (I’m about to start a new one), new foster parents about how the “system” works in whatever state we happen to live in. I love giving information to people and seeing that moment when it clicks in their brains or when they connect it to something else they’ve learned. It’s a great feeling…
Now go teach someone something… I know you know something that someone needs to know or would love to know! And for those grammar police out there… see how many run-on sentences you can spot in this post… it’s really the only way I write because it’s the way I speak… run-on sentences and stream of consciousness!!
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I’ve seen things…
When we go back to my childhood (yes again!!) you might or might not be surprised to know that I didn’t go anywhere for vacations. Our family all lived near us except for one uncle who still lived in Arkansas. We did go see him a few times, but not really any other vacations and not anything that I would consider traveling. My high school youth group for church provided me with more traveling in those few years than any of the years before combined. We went to church camp at Glorietta, NM and Panama City Beach, FL. We went on a spring break ski trip to Breckenridge, CO and another spring break trip to Disney World in Orlando, FL. These trips were awesome, but somehow it didn’t feel like traveling. I mean… I’m sure I was a normal, self-absorbed teenage girl who was just loving hanging out with her friends on the bus and terrified of the birds that were allowed to fly willy-nilly all over the Disney Theme Parks!! YIKES!! My senior year, our physics class went to Washington DC on a trip and got there on a train from Meridian, MS to Washington DC. I was a great trip, and one of the ones I remember most easily. Both of my parents went on this trip, so maybe that’s why I like it so much! After graduation, I didn’t want to go on a “senior trip” or anything like that (I told you I had no desire to be rebelious). My parents took me to Branson, MO for a few days. We had a really good time, and I’m surprised by how much of that I remember too… We went to my first Ripley’s Believe it or Not?! museum (these museums – or odditoriums – will for some weird reason continue to pop up in my life and travels!)
I went to college in Arkansas, and spent most of that time just trying to get over my freshman year and graduate. So… no traveling then… I guess that might not be completely true. We did a spring break mission trip to Kentucky with the MBSF to help them start a youth group. I then went back there by myself for the summer to be their youth group leader and try to get it going. I worked for the preacher’s parents at their hardware store, and lived with them while I was there. It was fun, but weird being on my own… sort of! The spring break after I met Ron (maybe I never said his name, but that’s my bald-headed man!!) anyway, we went on an MBSF trip to Washington DC and stopped by the church in Kentucky on our way home.
I wanted to see more of the country. I didn’t really have a desire to leave the United States, but I knew there were cool places out there that I wanted to see… eventually. And some places I wanted to see again.
So Ron told me, when I met him, that he thought he was being called to be a United Methodist minister. I knew some of what the methodist believed, but most of it was just what I had heard other people say. I needed to find out more about this, and maybe my research will be in another post, but this one is about travel! 🙂
I told him that I was ready to go with him anywhere… then excitedly explained how I couldn’t wait to move all around the country with him and see new and awesome things. He informed me that he would be in the Arkansas conference and that we would be moving quite a bit, but only around the state of Arkansas. I pouted… I admit it. I thought this was my chance to get out and see things. I got over it and kept reading books so I could graduate! 😉
After we were married for a few years, and in the midst of infertility angst, He comes home from one annual conference and says he’s been approached about joining the Air Force as a chaplain and he was thinking about giving it a try in the Air Reserves. I followed right along with him. No griping from me about him following God’s call… Nothing really changed very much except he did have to go to training more often.
We moved churches (inside of Arkansas), I finally got pregnant the first time. After Price was born, he went away to another training, and before it was even over he was talking about doing this for real. Joining the Air Force on active duty.
My question “Will we move out of Arkansas?” His answer “We will get to live all over the world!” I was IN!! And it’s been a great adventure…
We spent nearly 3 years in Colorado Springs, Co as our first assignment, then to Ankara, Turkey for nearly 2 years where I was pretty terrified. Next was Fort Meade, Mayland (directly between DC and Baltimore)… I LOVED it!! And now we are in southern Spain for the next 2 years (it’s actually only about 18 months now… we’ve already been here 1/4 of our time. It is flying by over here!! I’ll write more about these individual places and the things we were able to do and see there, so stay tuned for more travel!!
After nearly 10 years on active duty, and now with the number of places I’ve been and places I’ve lived stacking up…. I can honestly say that every single time I drive into Hamburg, Arkansas no matter how long I’ve been gone, it feels like a warm blanket has been draped over my shoulders. There is truly no place like home, and Arkansas is kind of a wonderful place to call home!!
Welcome to my world… it’s pretty great around here!!
I. Love. Books!
Not that any of you want to know more about my childhood or anything, but I wasn’t a reader as a child. I didn’t like to read as a pre-teen (we were NOT called Tweens back then!), and I certainly didn’t read as a teenager!!
Ready for a confession (I hope none of my teachers from high school are reading this)?? I NEVER read a single book in Jr High or High School that was assigned to me. The reason this might be a surprise is because I graduated high school nearly with a 4.0. I only had 2-3 B’s from 9th-12th grade. I was good at research, even back then, and I probably spent as much time reading ABOUT the assigned book than I would’ve spent reading the actual book. It was like a matter of principle that I wasn’t going to read the book. I wasn’t a rebel at all as a teenager, and I still follow rules like crazy, but for some reason, I just didn’t want to read books. Not any books… My best friend read Gone With the Wind and those types of things in school… and she definitely read everything we were assigned in class. She DID graduate with a 4.0, so maybe that would’ve made a difference for me! 🙂
I went on to college and after a disastrous freshman year that had to be repeated by a little less disastrous SECOND freshman year, I coasted through to my Senior year… met a boy and got married. I had one semester left after we got married before graduation. I was a senior in college with a decent GPA, an ENGLISH major, and I had STILL never read an entire book that was assigned to me by a professor. This is pure craziness, I know! I had one semester left and decided to take it easy. I took The American Story, or something like that. It was about american literature. I had plans to just coast on through with some highly effective research and a lot of BS on essay and anything else I had to write. However, I found myself wanting to be home with my new husband instead of researching at the library, and I just kept staring at the assigned book. He was studying (he was getting ready to go to seminary), and I didn’t have anything else to do, so I picked it up. I couldn’t stop reading it, and 16 years later, it’s still on my bookshelf. I read all the rest of the assigned books for that class, made a pretty easy A, and graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in English degree! 🙂
I spent a few more years not really reading much, and then my mother said something. She has a learning disability. This makes it hard for her to read things and write things, and because of this she just didn’t read books. I’m not sure when this changed for her, but one day, about 9 or 10 years ago, she and I were walking in Walmart and as we were checking out we saw a book on an end cap. The cover of the book looked kind of like your typical romance novel, but the man on the cover looked like someone to me. I was obsessed with a TV show about vampires (Called Moonlight, and THIS was the main character). The main character looked a lot like the guy on the cover of this book… AND the book was about a vampire. So we each bought a copy of it. I didn’t live near her anymore, so we talked about the book (after we both read it very quickly) and realized there were more books in this series, and we had read them out of order. (This is a huge pet peeve with me, but this time it worked out fine!)
Thus began the time in my life when I “learned to read”. I started reading everything I could get my hands on. This vampire series led me to other vampire writers and even other fantasy writers and soon I was reading all manor of paranormal romance as the genre is called. I was reading 2-3 books a week and couldn’t go anywhere without having my book. Something wonderful happened then… a device called a “kindle” was released about this time and I saved up my money for months to order one that was then back-ordered because so many people wanted one. And then the obsession really escalated. I eventually realized that emersing myself in these types of things started to effect my outlook on life. I started thinking of things around me in terms of how one character would see this or think about this. I might have gotten a little lost in my own paranormal world.
So, I backed off a little and added in some nonfiction reading to help me maintain balance, and to grow in different ways. I still read 2-3 books a week, and should probably keep track of it a little better than I do, and I also constantly read more than one book at a time, and go back and re-read books I’ve read more than one time. I will try to read almost anything, and because of that, there have been plenty of times where I’ve started a book and not been able to finish it because it was just too much… something… whether it’s too much suspense, too much violence, too much sex, too much stupidity by some of these female characters, I just haven’t finished them. But… I will give every book a chance (if it’s first person point of view, I’ll gripe about it a lot, but I’ll still give it a chance).
So… What I’m currently reading…
That’s all for now… I just try to read a little bit of everything… and I have a huge list of “to-read” books. I’m constantly adding to them as I listen to podcasts and read more books. I’m always open to suggestions, so let me know your favorite book or author and I’ll add it to my list…
Also… if you’re curious about the book I FINALLY read for my college class… here it is… straight from my shelf! And I’ll link the first “vampire” book I read also… be warned… it’s not for everyone!! 😉
Welcome to my world… it’s pretty great around here!!