I used to pass out… like… a lot!! A little bit more history about my childhood. I have one sibling. An older brother. He’s six years older than me. My mother had secondary infertility. Meaning that she didn’t have a problem getting pregnant the first time, but when he was three or four and they decided to have another baby, they ended up having to have fertility treatments. In her case, she took clomid… and got pregnant with me!
So… I’m six years younger than my brother. I always tried to do whatever he did and go along with anything he would let me do. I had three cousins who were about the same age as my brother and they were all boys. I tried everything I could think of to make them like me… especially Boyett, my brother.
I don’t remember how old i was, but I was young… and he had done something mean to me, as most big brothers do! And I was crying… I remember him telling me that “only babies cry”… and i wanted to be anything but a baby, so this began the period of my life where I would hold my breath to keep from crying… and I’d pass out!
I don’t know the first time this happened, but I remember the last time I did it…
At the house I lived in from age 2-16, we had holly bushes in the front yard across the front of the house. I passed out one time and fell into those bushes. There was a really big ditch between our house and our neighbor’s house. I passed out and fell down that ditch one time. Maybe there were more times, but I don’t specifically remember those times. 🙂 I do remember the last time, though.
We were at the deer camp. I hope you all know what that is, but in case you don’t, it’s a camp where you stay when you are hunting deer. 🙂 Okay… it is a piece of land that usually has a place to sleep (sleep shack) and a place to eat (kitchen). My grandfather and some of his friends leased some land a long time ago to use for hunting and were allowed to put a “camp” on it so that they (usually just the men) could come stay and be able to head out to hunt earlier.
I LOVED the deer camp as a child. We were there a lot and so were most of my cousins. We played all kinds of games and could really do whatever we wanted as long as we stayed at the camp and didn’t go into the woods.
This time… the last time I passed out… we were at the deer camp. We were all running from the kitchen (where the adults were), to the sleep shack (where we would go play cards or other games). The screen door had a spring on it so it would stay closed and as I was running into the sleep shack behind my cousin, the screen door started to slam closed and I tried to catch it. I missed and it slammed on my fingers.
I couldn’t go inside because I thought I was about to cry (and i didn’t want anyone to see that), so I turned around and walked around the side of the sleep shack. I was holding my breath so I would cry, and this time when I passed out, I fell into the side of the sleep shack and busted my head open. It was actually on my face, near my eyebrow.
I, obviously, don’t remember this next part, but one of the adults left the kitchen for some reason and saw me laying unconscious with blood all over my face. In case you weren’t aware, head wounds bleed easily and profusely, so my cut probably looked worse than it was.
He picked me up (still unconscious) and brought me into the kitchen. He laid me on a table, and this is when I woke up.
I remember opening my eyes and everything was really bright and I could see my mother’s back right beside me and she was screaming for everyone to “back up and leave her alone”. I’m not sure why she wanted this, unless it was so she could examine what was wrong, but that’s what I remember. Anyway, she says she was completely freaked out and not even sort of in control, but I just remember her yelling for everyone to back up, and then I don’t remember much more than that. I do know that I decided that crying would probably have been better than what happened.
So now… I just cry it out!! 🙂
Welcome to my world… it’s pretty great around here!!