So that English degree that I told you about in another post is used still today (although I joke that I don’t use it at all!). I use it especially when I read Facebook posts where the grammar is horrific!! And especially memes… I don’t care what the point of the meme is, if they can’t use the correct form of your/you’re and their/there/they’re, I can’t focus on what it’s saying! I just can’t. I realize that sometimes people make an accidental mistake and they actually know the difference, and I can overlook it in a text or something else that is quickly written and maybe being read by one person, but if you are making a meme there are two rules you should follow: 1. Is everything spelled correctly? 2. Is my grammar correct? That’s it… if those two things are good, then I’ll check out your meme and laugh about it… otherwise, I’ll scroll on past while I shake my head and the lack of thought that went into it… and please don’t share memes that don’t have those two rules either.
Okay… all of that sounded snobbish, and while it is actually what I think, I never say anything about it. I just don’t tell people when they’ve made grammatical errors. One of my favorite English professors in college said this about correcting people’s grammar. She said, “I don’t correct grammar unless the person is my child or a student in class. You shouldn’t do it either because it really is none of your business. No one will talk to you after you correct them either for fear that they will say something to bring about your wrath. So just mind your own business and don’t do it!” I’ve followed that rule since she said it. I hadn’t thought that maybe my friends and family members didn’t like it when I told them they should say that “the bike is BROKEN” instead of “the bike is broke”. So now I only correct my children, and since they’ve grown up listening to me MOSTLY use correct grammar, then it isn’t as much of an issue. I do still think it, but I can’t really help that part, and I do a great job of keeping my mouth shut about it! 🙂
One more thing about grammar, and then I promise to get on to the “teacher” part of this post! 🙂 If you think someone (usually someone online) is being stupid or acting like an idiot… please, please, please… just don’t say anything! 🙂 We all know that’s the correct response. Just be nice to them or don’t respond to them at all. HOWEVER, if you just HAVE to say something and tell them how dumb you think they are… don’t say “your an idiot!” The “idiot” might not get the mistake, but the majority of the people who read this will likely think that maybe you are the idiot… BUT… just don’t say mean things period… this also applies if someone is amazing!! “your amazing” is still incorrect… 🙂 So don’t do that either!
Okay… I graduated from college and became a stay at home wife. I thought I’d be great at this job because I’d have all day to decide what we would eat for dinner and to clean the house and have everything perfect. That’s when I discovered a few things about me…
- I don’t enjoy cooking.
- I HATE to clean.
- I like to watch movies.
- I like to do crafty things.
None of these things are good qualities listed in whatever job description we all hear about when talking about being a housewife (don’t like that term!), so I sucked at this. (I still do actually, and it’s been 16 years!)
I wanted to cross-stitch and watch movies while I did it. I didn’t want to clean this gigantic house that I was having problems living in because all the bedrooms made me realize that I wanted babies in them and that wasn’t happening. I just didn’t know what to do.
My husband (who is a MUCH better housewife than me!) suggested I see about substitute teaching at the local high school. This will have to be a whole other blog series because this school was CRAZY!!! I did teach, for one year. That’s all I could take… in that one year, I was subpoenaed to court to testify against the principal who was arrested TWO different times during that school year. I saw children doing things that I had only just started doing since I had just gotten married. It was just out of control, and I’ve just decided to make this my first blog series after Who am I??
After that job, we moved and I got pregnant. Price was born and we were living so close to Hamburg (where I grew up), and my old principal when I went to school there was now the superintendent of schools and he told me there was good chance I would get a job at my old high school, if I wanted it.
I tried to do the stay-at-home-mom thing, now that I was officially a mom, but I stunk at that too. It still involved all the same “requirements” as a housewife, only now I had a baby to deal with on top of it. The “baby” was now 18 months old and I decided teaching again seemed like a good idea.
I LOVED being back at my old high school. I was in the teacher’s lounge hanging out with my old teachers. It was awesome… and surreal! That school year was weird though because I didn’t actually have a classroom, I had a cart! 🙂 I’ll post more about that later too… I got pregnant again while I was teaching there and decided that with a toddler and now a baby on the way, I really wanted to stay home with them. I loved being a mommy and didn’t like that I didn’t get to see Price all day while I was teaching.
We moved to Colorado Springs when Price was 3 and Wesley was 8 months old. Ron was officially on active duty in the Air Force, and I was staying home with my babies. I loved it. I decided that homeschooling was going to be the best way for us to be able to do all the things we wanted to do. I wanted to travel and we wanted to be able to go home and visit whenever we wanted to. These things would be made easier by homeschooling, and i figured if I could teach 25-30 high schoolers, then I could teach one on one with my own kids.
I’ve been teaching them for 8 years, and it’s looked different from time to time. I’ll write more about the ways in which we’ve home-schooled throughout the years and how it looks for us as an ever-evolving entity. It’s the best decision for our family, but I know it’s not the best for everyone. This is another area where I try to keep my mouth shut and answer questions when I’m asked, but not butt in when I’m not asked.
I am a teacher, and I love to teach. Not just my children, but bible studies at our church (I’m about to start a new one), new foster parents about how the “system” works in whatever state we happen to live in. I love giving information to people and seeing that moment when it clicks in their brains or when they connect it to something else they’ve learned. It’s a great feeling…
Now go teach someone something… I know you know something that someone needs to know or would love to know! And for those grammar police out there… see how many run-on sentences you can spot in this post… it’s really the only way I write because it’s the way I speak… run-on sentences and stream of consciousness!!
Welcome to my world… it’s pretty great around here!!